DORTMUND/ESSEN
Find yourself a working man in the heart of the Ruhr, Germany’s most industrial area.
Drink Fuck Buy Crash Eat Hang More
WHERE TO DRINK (AND CRUISE)
gentleM (Kettwiger Str 60, Essen) Fetish-friendly gay bar. link
WHERE TO FUCK
Life Erotica (Salzmarkt 8, Essen) Sex shop with video booths. link
Man Moviethek (Vereinstr 22, Essen) Gay cinema and cruise club. Get sleazy! link
Metropol-Sauna (Maxstr 6, Essen) Bathhouse with theme parties. (Open on weekends and for special events.) link
PLUTO (Viehofer Str 49, Essen) Full-service bathhouse with bistro, bar, swimming pool, and more. link
Ruhrwellness (Sandstr 162, Mülheim) Gay sauna with theme days in a smaller city between Essen and Duisburg. link
WHERE TO BUY GEAR
Life Erotica (Salzmarkt 8, Essen) Sex shop with video booths. link
VAST Fetish Gear (Kaiserstr 158, Dortmund) This fully stocked fetish store is an official Mister B concept store. link
WHERE TO CRASH (AND MAYBE FUCK SOME MORE)
Holiday Inn Essen – City Centre (Frohnhauser Str 6, Essen) Centrally located gay-friendly property of the reliable chain. link
Unperfekthaus (Friedrich-Ebert-Str 18-26, Essen) Leather-friendly restaurant, hotel, and clubhouse. link
WHERE TO EAT (AND CRUISE)
Klubhaus 1249 (Kleppingstr 37, Dortmund) Gay-friendly restaurant and bar serving German favorites and a lot more. link
Der Löwe (Kopstadtpl 13, Essen) Very gay-friendly Bavarian-style Brauhaus. link
Unperfekthaus (Friedrich-Ebert-Str 18-26, Essen) Leather-friendly restaurant, hotel, and clubhouse. link
WHO TO HANG WITH
Rheinfetisch The fetish club for gay men in Germany’s most populous region. link
SUB This group promotes sexy fetish events and maintains a calendar of fetish events in the greater Rhein-Ruhr area. link
MORE PLACES
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